If you volunteer to help with set-up or shut-down, that is reduced to $5. Briefly describe your level of experience and how you like or would like to play. If you like what you’ve read and you would like to attend, send an email to Include your name as it appears on your photo ID that you will need to present at the door. If you’re just starting out, keep in mind that our motto is “Fortune favors the bold.” Don’t hesitate to approach someone to ask if they want to play, and it is recommended that you be as specific as possible in what you’re asking for. We hope that someone with no experience and someone with decades of experience will find the Palm Springs Bondage Club a place where they can explore new things and get the good, hard, satisfying play they want. Is it only open to experienced BDSM players? If you’re not sure who the Top is, find the dungeon concierge in the safety vest and ask them for guidance.
And do not assume that a bottom left unattended is public property. If you would like to make a contribution to a scene, ask the Top, and remember that “no” is a complete sentence. If someone asks to take your picture, keep in mind that there are really no guarantees of how far and wide it may spread. Ask the people you are taking pictures of for their permission and honor their decision if they decline. If you want to take pictures, that’s fine. Again, we love fisting, and we are hoping to get a fisting party meeting regularly up and running sometime soon, but for now, please take your hungry holes elsewhere.Īnd, because BDSM is not without risks, please refrain from heavy alcohol or drug use when you plan to play. And, unfortunately, that extends to fisting. Also, the venue where we meet cannot have outright sex going on, so please respect this. We have a policy of “no blow jobs or fucking” not in the context of a scene. We love sex, but although there are plenty of places around town where you can have sex, there aren’t any where you can do serious BDSM. Please keep in mind that the focus of the Palm Springs Bondage Club is BDSM, rather than sex. If you’re doing something for the first time, they are happy to talk you through it. Clean up after yourself, try not to monopolize the equipment, be courteous and respectful of your play partners. What are “The Rules” at the Palm Springs Bondage Club?Ĭommon sense. It’s time to clean up and call it a night.Įverything is put away and the place is left how we found it. If you find someone who is your counterpart, get busy! We start by standing in a circle and introducing ourselves, letting people know what we’re into and what we’re looking for that night.
You must be there within a half hour of opening to take part. Monthly play parties are open to absolutely everyone who wants to get tied up, tie someone up, flog, get flogged, whip, get whipped, etc.ĭoors close. In general, we meet on the last Saturday of every month, with a few exceptions during the year to accommodate scheduling conflicts with our venue or with other events. When does the Palm Springs Bondage Club meet?
We’re not looking to make money, just to cover expenses, and we are doing this as a service to the Leather and Kink community here in Palm Springs. The Palm Springs Bondage Club is a collaboration between Palm Springs Leather Order of the Desert and the Desert Fetish Authority. The Palm Springs Bondage Club is a monthly community BDSM play party.